Is my Child Old Enough for a Dog?

Many parents have this same question, "Is my child old enough for a dog?" What I've found is that the real concern is whether or not parents are ready for a dog and a child simultaneously. In reality, children are amazing with dogs, given that dog is great with children. In most cases, like that of singleton children, dogs are a recommended companion to offset the loneliness many singleton children face.

When I say loneliness, I do not mean that in the sense that your child is miserable, but that they urge the interaction with something other than an adult (authority figure). When another child is not an option, a dog is the next best thing.

When's the best age to get a dog for my child? Typically its recommended to either bring home a puppy a few months after your child is born or while they are in their early years. They will grow up together and be like virtual siblings.

The reason most parents stay away from purchasing or adopting dogs for their children during their teen or tween years is that children are just entering their young adult stage, where they will be spending more time outside of the home and socializing. The void of being an only child, or that of wanting a four-legged companion, dissipates as they become more independent and curate friends to further fill this void. Not to mention, less time at home means your children won't be as active in the maintenance and care of a pet.

Although teen and tween years are not optimal for brining in a dog for your children, it is actually the best time to adopt or purchase a dog for yourself. You will have more alone time as your children grow up, the best way to keep you busy is to have another little something to take care of.

Overall, a dog does not have to be a bad thing; over time they become members of the family and comfort during times of loss and struggle, making the home happier and fuller. If you are considering having more children, but you are unsure, you may want to consider a dog. While not the same, it is the best way to ease into handling two busybodies at the same time. Children are naturally good with dogs, so be sure to get a dog that is good with children. Keep these tips in mind.

Bigger dogs are best for very active children.
Male dogs can often try to assert their dominance over female and younger members of the family. Always remember to gear authority in a direction that lets the dog know that they are last on the totem pole. Failure to establish a hierarchy can sometimes lead to dogs competing with your children for affection, food, and many more things which can lead to altercations.
Do not get dogs if you travel a lot and will have to leave them in a kennel or with a friend for extended periods of time.
Try not to adopt or purchase excessively large dogs if you live in small quarters like a small apartment or studio with no access to a yard or outdoor space. Dogs need exercise, especially larger dogs. Being cramped indoors all day until you return home can create increased anxiety and bad behavior while you are gone.

Dogs will offer a new sense of responsibility to your children and increase their interactional and behavioral skills. Studies have shown that dogs make it easier for children to interact with the world by first starting with an unconditional source of companionship and love.

It should also be noted that of you have a history of allergies in your family, refrain from purchasing a dog until your child has been tested for allergies by a doctor.

So overall, your child is ready for a dog at any age, the question is whether you are willing to accept increased responsibility in return for hugs and kisses from a furry friend.

Original article by C.J. Leger for The Mother's Diary